We did the "lets just see what happens cos its probably not going to happen anyway" and I fell pregnant with DD the first time

I too have had a problem with being on the pill so I hadn't been taking it for years so there was no chemical contraception to come off.

DD is now 2 and we're ready to try again but I am hoping to control the timing a bit more as there are a few big things happening for us this year that I want to work around. Its cycle 3 and still no BFP but both DH and I don't want to get ourselves caught up in the stress of it all so I wouldn't mind going back to the "lets see what happens" method. I've been charting and using OPKs for the first time this month but might give it a rest after this cycle.