This is me too, its been a year next month that we have been not, not trying! LOL.

Before getting PG with DS we were doing the same thing, not "actively" trying...I fell 18 months later, then MC at 9-10 wks, after that i WAS DETERMINED! took 6 months but we got PG with DS.

After all the stress and head bull**** of trying desperately to get PG last time (after MC) I absolutely refuse to go back there. I dont need the stress.