This is kinda us at the moment. It took 5 months of actively trying to get our last BFP, but unfortunately lost it at 9 weeks in January. At the moment neither of us are ready for another pregnancy, but not so much that we're abstaining. I got AF back a couple of weeks ago but I'm really not paying that much attention to my cycle now. So whatever happens, happens! I will be happy when it happens but I guess if it takes a little while then that's just fine.