Hey Ladies,

How are we all doing?? hopefully getting lots of

Ok this is my Question, Do i as a ttc-er for 3yrs have a right to be devasted, hurt,angry and feeling like a failure when my AF arrives and it hits that yet again another month of trying and hoping that this would be our month for , if i already have a child??

As there have been a few friends of ours who have made comments like " oh whats your problem you already have one" and " Dont let it get to ya, you've got chloe"

Now yeah i do have chloe and she is truely my angel sent from above, without her i would be lost i have been so blessed and feel so lucky to have finally got her, after 3yrs of ttc and 2 miscarriages, but in saying that The hurt and pain of ttc with chloe is nearly the exact feeling i have this time round, yeah i have chloe but in away i am angry with my body as i fell pregnant once, why arent i falling pregnant again and this time it is taking me even longer, not to mention i was falling pregnant but kept miscarrying whilst ttc with chloe but my body hasnt concieved a baby since june 2001, so hell yeah i am devasted, hurt, angry and feeling like a failure.

so what do you think do ttc 'vre's have a right to feel like this if they already have a child/ren???