Penny - :hugs: you go ahead and feel whatever you want to. My friend has 2 healthy boys and now she wants number 3 but DH's sperm quality has reduced and she only has 1 ovary and conception is very difficult for them. She is devasted and her MIL (who has 6 kids) tells her all the time to be happy and not to feel upset (although is puts it in a harsh way). All she wants is a hug and not silly comments like that.

All the best with TTC, may you be blessed soon