Lee, I'm so sorry to hear about your little heaven baby. Missed miscarriages are so frustrating (all of them are, but each type is different itms). My first m/c was a blighted ovum too. I was very very angry after that. It made no sense. Felt like a cruel trick. In hindsight I was glad that I didn't have to pass a 12wk baby so for me I held onto the graciousness of my God for that small mercy. I am someone who doesn't believe that there is a wrong time for a baby, and I personally don't think that miscarriages happen because it wasn't the right time yet...but I do know that lots of blessings will happen now that wouldn't have happened if you were still pregnant. for us after the last miscarriage - I was just handed a job that was more than enough to pay for a brand new car and my sons kindy this year - in the months surrounding my last m/c we couldn't even get a 5k loan from the bank for a second hand car. So keep an eye out for the things you can enjoy now that you may have missed out on if you were pregnant. By no means does it make up for the baby - i desperately wish that i was having my last little m/c bub this week....but it helps your perspective a little and helps you get past the anger and hurt.
xx hang in there.