I think that a lot of mums question the should we or shouldnt we when the decision of haveing more kids is brought up. I know alot of mums have no hesitation in answering the amount of kids they want. I actually admire those mums.

We are only human and the decision shouldnt be taken lightly. Its not a perfect world we live in unfortunatly so we have to make the right decisions based on our situations. You alone and your DH will know when the time is right to add to your family, but reading all the reasuring comments about the mums that have had that second one must be proof that its all good.

Best of luck with the decision.