Leelo, your plan sounds great. I think if you put everything into your sway you'll at least be able to say that you gave it your best shot. No regrets.

Ash - Your sway sounds pretty good too. I think its great that you arent too invested in whether you get another boy or girl. I think if I had a girl next then I'd love to give her a sister too. I loved having sisters growing up so I understand where you are coming from, especially as I always wanted two little girls of my own.

Id love to sway hardcore but I just want a baby so bad and DH is really getting tired of the diet. My m/cs have really changed my headspace but at the same time I do really want (need) a daughter of my own. I guess you ladies understand.