Yep the urinating thing works! But you want to know something funny There is a saying out there that if "it" is a bit on the bigger side...then you tend to get more thrush, and also make sure that he doesn't have thrush. As once he gets it he will keep giving it to you especially if he isn't circ'd (as its more common for uncirc'd guys to have it and have no symptoms and thus pass it on).

Goodluck!

*hugs*
Cailin