I took my DH to my first appointment, and he came to others with me also. It really depended on where we were in the cycle to if he came or not. Our FS wanted to do all of our background at the first meeting so it would probably be wise to have your DH there with you for that one. I would think that your Dr will most likely want your DH to have a sperm analysis done just to make sure everything is fine there so they know what they are dealing with.

Keep us posted on how you go.