Hi

We are TTC and this is a subject I have thought about as well. I think personally I would tell immediate family (mum, dad, siblings & in-laws) & our closest friends.

We would more than likely hold of telling grandparents & distant family members until after 12 weeks but if the subject came up then we would tell them without hesitation. Luckily for us however we can go months with out having contact with our interstate family & friends, only due to busy lifestyle nothing else, so it probably won't be that hard for us not to tell them.

If something unfortunate were to happen in the early stages then those closest to us would be our greatest support unit and help us deal with anything we were going through.

Hope this helps but it really is just a personal thing that only you yourself can decide. Good luck with TTC