I think each sitiuation is different therefore one persosn "ideal" age gap will be different to someone elses, it really depends on the individual circumstances.

I always wanted my kids close in age but as DD is fast approaching 1 and still no sign of O or AF I am beginning to wonder just how large a gap we will end up having. I have always thought I'd do BLW, but considering there will be a minimum 21 month age difference if by some miracle we fell pregnant now, now I am thinking I might wean.

I say,

just go with the flow, if the idea of falling pregnant now doesn't freak you out then just start playing and see what happens

Nae x x