I agree with Amaunet; high levels of stress could certainly impede a pregnancy, but for sometime outside to say that is insensitive. It's like someone telling me all I hafta do to lose weight is cut out the lollies and Coke - they have no idea I don't eat either of them, they're making huge assumptions about something they clearly don't understand. For myself, I've fallen pregnant when I've given up 4 times now - but they never stick, so obviously 'relaxing' isn't the be all and end all. It can be helpful for a couple to come that place by themselves, but it inevitably fails when they're doing it because someone else is telling them to.