Hi there
I have no advice, just wanted you to know that you are not the only one!! I put on barely 5kilos with Charlotte, and thought it was ace. Then since I have had her and am still BF Iget sooo hungry, I eat all the time.
I am an emotional eater, and my my got sick in August and I have been living out of suitcases on the other side of the country, mum died 2 weeks ago so things have only been worse than ever! I am like you, short, lol 5'4" and have put on 25 kilos since having charlotte. I hate it.
So I am on my health kick, tryng to sort out what I am doing wrong and make more time for myself, exercise, etc...So if you need some moral support, I am a click away!
Hang in there hun, we are on the right track at least!