I had concerns about putting myself first too - it's almost expected by society that to be a good wife and mum, you always have to consider your needs last, right?

WRONG!

By putting yourself first in this instance, you will eventually be a healthier mum for your husband and kids, so this is as much for them as you. Don't you forget that!
That is great advice Sushee! Well put.

GO MAZZZZZZ!!! and hey guess what? You have now inspired me too!!! a chain reaction

I am behind you one hundred percent woman, and am going to be checking on you to keep myself motivated. (and secretly competing I guess hehe) Yay, you're gonna be even more gorg.

Ok off to drink more water right now... and play squash tonight too. puff, pant, sweat.