yep...not because I'm female and he's male, but because he is taller/stronger/less squeamish and I am shorter/weaker/a wuss For example he does all the cabling, electrical stuff, I put on more loads of washing (I'm home more). We both cook pretty equally, although I often let DF take over when I'm feeling lazy. WE clean the house equally, I prefer doing the bathroom and bedroom, he prefers the kitchen and mopping. DF will fold clothes more than me because he likes to fold things absolutely precisely. I will be constantly tidying and re-arranging the pantry and fridge because he leaves stuff in the wrong home ALL the time.