Actually, I like it that DH takes DS out on a weekend for 2-3 hours so I can get the housework done properly like vacuuming under the sofas. Happens once every about 3 weeks, and I really don't mind that. DH has the option of cleaning or playing, I don't mind either. DH usually has a preference for one or the other on that day. Not happening atm due to renos, but in a way it is as I'm taking DS out for the whole day so DH can get the work done.

So we share housework and parenting. And seem to enjoy it.