Thanks Lissie,

Its my BIL who needs my DH sperm, but I know exactly what you mean about the DNA being a small part of us, I told my SIL that no matter where this child comes from, they will be the parents and love it more than anything else. Thanks for your reply, I suspect the counselling will come if they infact need to go down this path.

Good luck with your embies hun, hoping you get a sticky one soon.

Lisa xx