LisaL
There are lots of issues surrounding donor sperm. For us we went through an unknown donor, as DH's brothers made it clear they were unwilling to donate - so we went through the Fertility Clinic.

the second big issue was the how/if to tell the child. For us we were upfront with the entire family about using donor sperm - for us and our families this was the best way to go. We also decided that we would explain as soon as any children were old enough to know that they was a donor involved.

There are donor support organisations out there and you may wish to contact them to find out all the issues that may impact upon you.

Good luck in your decision making.

Dusty - everything crossed hun... sticky vibes to dusty tomorrow.. stick embies stick!!!