Subigirl,

If this is what is in your heart then I would suggest going down the donor path sooner rather than later, particularly if you intend using an IVF clinic. Check the local laws of your state concerning single parenting - some states are more flexible than others. Be aware that in some states also there is a shortage of donors, so you may be placed on a waiting list (if you use the IVF clinic option). If this seems too long you could consider finding your own donor. The only other option is home insemination, however I have never used this process so I can't really advise you.

Good luck in whatever you decide to do.