Hi Mrs P, I hope you have had some luck with your seller. If you still haven't heard from them you can request their contact information so you can give them a call and find out where your item is. I'm not 100% sure if you can do this with an unregistered seller, but it is worth a shot.

To request their contact info:
* Click the "Advanced Search" link at the top of most eBay pages.
* Click the "Find Contact Information" link under Members on the left side of the page.
* Enter the seller's User ID and the Item number.
* Click the Search button.

You should receive an email (I think) with the seller's details. I would also file an item not received dispute to see how much eBay can help you.

Best of luck, I hope it all works out for you!