I just realised I had written a huge reply a while ago and it mustn't have posted !

I think I had said that I have been cutting people out of my life that don't make me happy. If they make me uncomfortable or I try to change who I am when I am around them then they aren't good for me. I surround myself with people who make me happy and support me.

I can't else what I wrote but I think that was the main idea