I don't think any less of you for admitting that Berenice People are different. My DH is also the kind of person to need others around. He would remarry, I'm almost certain and that's ok by me (as long as she is good to my children of course). I can see in my own children hints of this difference. My eldest and my youngest are like my DH: people people! My middle child is more like me: enjoys his own company, actively seeks it out. Co incidentally (or not) my middle child is VERY similar (in both looks and 'ways') to my Nana! So maybe there is a genetic predisposition to all of this!?