Don't forget you can also do too much and make it hard for them in the future.
So somehow we are to raise independent loving children that are happy to socialise and be team players but also be able to work and excel alone.
They need to be creative and fun loving but also conform to a classroom/office environment for the first half of thier life. They are to be different but not distract anyone else!!!

I'm having troubles with miss 6 at the moment, we are investigating attention issues which affect her at school however she is still keeping up and improving at school, she distracts herself no one else but is not suited for classroom.
Homeschooling is not an option right low as I know with new bub coming I wouldn't be enough.
Miss 2 has speech and understanding delays that affects our everyday activites and is stressful and again "am I helping her enough to catch up?"

It's never ending.. Then am I a good enough wife?? Am I a good role model to my girls, future wives?

I am trying so hard but can I do more??


Enjoy your 8 month old, if you enjoy all the daily important tasks and talk to her all the time about what you are doing you will shock yourself how much you are teaching her.