Yes. All the time. But have been reading a lot if articles on RIE which I'm finding to be a brilliant, respectful model of parenting. And the emphasis is very much on being present, available and accepting and allowing the development of skills and potential at the child's natural pace. Fostering independence and initiative and avoiding doing everything with or for your child. It's given me some space... permission, to be enough. Because I can be there with my kids. I can love them and believe in them and support them as they develop into their whole selves. I can set clear boundaries.... mostly! Amazing cook, crafter, imaginative playmate, educator, confidante, ethicist and mentor... not so sure I can be all those things. But I can maybe be enough if i can let go of that list and focus on their core needs for my mindfulness and love.