I never feel like I do or am enough, and I am not even a proper parent yet..... Sigh....

Dont feel enough for DH, don't feel enough for DSD, don't feel enough for my mum, don't feel enough for baby brother, don't feel enough at work...

But mostly... I don't feel enough for me.....

i blame my dad for it all....


....guess that's something else to work on with the psychologist.... Sigh....





Sorry, thats not the most supportive post.... My rational head says, we can't actually ever be enough, that's the perfectionist in us, and its not helpful... We can only do what we can do, and sometimes that means sacrificing being perfect.... It's okay, to just be ... Okay!!! Just to do an okay job, or get it nearly about right, or help your kids "a bit" - they will turn out just right, with a bit of love and as much time as you can fit in... It doesn't have to be everything....

Now to practice what I preach. x