Great thread!

My experience with forgiveness would be my bestfriend in high school, she did something that most people wouldn't forgive and i most certainly havent for what she did but i have forgiven her. When we were 17 she was dating her now DP and he and his two best friends had this bet going first to sleep with 69 girls got $200. I was the only girl they hadn't slept with so she got me drunk we all went to the lake and the plan was one by one they would sleep with me, so she could go around our school and call me a sl*t. We didnt talk for 4 years and we bumped into each other briefly and arranged to catch up as she lives only a few streets from me now. I have forgiven her but never what she did.

And just like with my SIL i'll never forgive what she has done to me, all the things she has said or any of the stress she has caused my relationship to have but maybe one day ill get past that and forgive her.