Thanks guys x You're right tms, I would be the same which is why I gues I want to know what I can say, what I should say...I can't say it'll be alright but then again I can't say "you're right it's all stuffed" yanno?
He doesn't want anything from me, constantly tells me there is nothing I can do. And it's not about that really...I don't want to know what to do as such...just help with what to say and how to be around him. I know I should just be myself but I don't know whether to be the eternal optimist or quiet and just listen. I can be the eternal optimist...it's quite easy for me...its the way I think. But I can see it can also be quite annoying, maybe he wants me to agree and say that it's not fair and that it shouldn't be happening to him.
and when, if ever, do you say that you can understand when they say they want to end it all? Because I can understand it, and that devastes me.
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