You cant take it all on hon. You can be there for him, love him, try etc but you can't be responsible for what he's thinking/saying. Hopefully he finds it in himself to reject the verdict and fight, but you cannot make him nor be responsible for having to do or say the right thing. This is a big test for him now.

The terminal cancer I mentioned above, they did not have chemo, anything. The woman with breast cancer on The Secret didnt either. She reduced her stress and watched funny movies, repeated grattitude mantras all day. Perhaps watch it with him?

Cancer thrives on a lack of oxygen in the body, they dont do well where its highly oxygenated. What increases oxygen in the body? You might know this - lots of water, deep diaphram breathing, exercise (as best he can). Does he have a healthy diet? Wheatgrass is very cleansing.