I hear you LuLu, I also think perfection is also hard to reach as the goals probably keep shifting. So do you ever really obtain perfection as such.

I agree with community work, at the moment I am a bit pushed for time but I know when I have more free time volunteer work is something I want to do, give something back as such.

I have promised myself this year that I am going to by for the local Christmas Tree appeal I have kept saying I would and just never got around to it but this year I am going to. Small steps