....I find myself advocating for a womans right to choose for her body/soul/spirit/emotions/lifestyle... As a mother I scream save the baby. As a friend I scream save them both. We wear many many hats. I do know though that pointing fingers, indignation, belittling, ridicule for anothers choices doesn't win anything - in fact we all lose.
I also know that what we would do at 16 or 18 is very different to what I would do at 43. Part of that is financial, part is wisdom of years, part is my life journey....
Well said