Thanks Melissa,

What you say has a lot of merit, it's interesting to get others' perspectives. My husband and I are certainly going to give conception our best shot. I guess I'm just facing up to our situation for the first time, and I'm thinking ahead to the possibility of IVF and so on. Still not sure. I want to get my head around it and then let him know what I've been thinking and see what he thinks. Sorry to get so philosophical - not sure if this is the forum for it! Maybe I'm worrying about nothing, and I'll conceive with my first course of Clomid!!!

Ros