Hi Rosro,
I too have been thinking along your same lines. Personally I still haven't formed an opinion about this although I do feel I need to give it my best shot at doing all I can (because I really want a baby and particularly in the early stages). I have been exploring many avenues of thought and have picked up a book which questions this exact thing. Very interesting reading and has made me really look at the whole "baby" thing and about how far I will go.
Best of luck with your first round of clomid.
Deb