Hi girls,

28w pg here and single (sort of by choice) with number 1.

I split with my partner at 14w, I think it is the best thing for both me and the baby. It has been incredibly hard at times. My XP and I are working on a friendship and he has dinner with us once a week. He refers to this time as his Belly Access Visit.

As has been said get yourself a support network. The drama's of pg are really mind blowing at times and it helps to have someone to talk to or even just cry with. Believe me as the weeks go on the emotions become totally unpredictable.

I find myself questioning everything.. decisions, feelings, actions... but most of the time it is so worth it. God that sounds like I regret my baby, I DON'T, not in the slightest its just that sometimes it can be hard.

A support network is so necessary because you need someone to go to when you have the exciting things too.. like scans, or quickening (first itme you feel bubs move)... you just want to and need to tell someone... it is so exciting and amazing.

Will chat heaps I am sure Jackie and congratulations on being such an amazing, independant woman who I am sure will be a great mum!.