I disagree that relationships are tough. We have been through some tough situations together but it isn't the relationship that is tough - its the situation. The relationship is the part that gets us through. The relationship is the easy part.
We have been together 8 years and he has never disrespected me or shown me anything but love. I am very lucky but I feel he is lucky too.
If your relationship is consistently tough maybe just maybe it's not right.
Well said Rach, I actually agree with you. I don't think relationships should be tough either. Yes they require work, and communication, but no the relationship shouldn't be tough.
What they said: completely agree!!