Hi and welcome Miss Em - although won't be too gushing as this isn't a group you really want to be a part of. Oh to have a "normal" family. It is such a shame you are being stalked and have all the emotional upset that goes with that. I hope you do get them stopped. . Hugs to Pac and JM too for having to go through that.

DH reckons that his MiL has been poisoning all my family about us, they were pretty off with us last time we met at a big family do. He may be right. Could have been we were otherwise occupied with DS though and actually, a lot of people had something else bigger than us on their minds.

As for us - sold the house (well, offer accepted), the one we wanted to buy the buyer has taken off the market this morning (aaagh!) but today have found a potentially better one. We are not telling DH's MiL (or my mother if you prefer) that we've sold, nor when we are moving when we get a date. We are debating about giving the new address, although it would mean trouble with the rest of the family. We live far enough away that she ay not be able to track us, but it will mean losing other family members who would pass the info on. Bet we will end up bending to her wishes and telling her.