I just want to say that I'm really tiring of people having to put endless disclaimers in every post to avoid potentially offending someone. Gosh, we speak in generalisations - OF COURSE there are exceptions to the 'rule' and you may well be one of them. Gotta love how threads never stay on track or civil any more because everyone's so keen to jump to the conclusion that they're being told off by a stranger who OF COURSE knows nothing about you or your personal life. Gah!
It feels like a disclaimer needs to go with every post.. Maybe a blanket one when you join up, along with a blanket "I won't take it as a personal attack unless my name is mentioned", after all one of the rules is that you don't attack anyone, so we should also not assume that we are being attacked.

But back to topic.. I have thought long and hard about this.. And we are both lazy. DH is a shiftworker, on a 24/7roster, so along with everything else in our life, it has to be a little planned. And then a child gets sick, or we have visitors, or AF shows up and suddenly we are 3 weeks and not even considered it. And then we might sneak one in, and then the whole cycle starts again. I am due for the 'when are we going to have sex again?' question.