I only found that thread just now.... i have no idea where i was when it was going on! LOL

I'm not the one who says no in our relationship, i am the one with a high sex drive (well its non existent now because of my ADs) and he always says no. He is the one who says its a chore, hes too tired and never seems to make an effort. So it goes both ways its not always the women who say no and need to make more of an effort and my DP proves that all men don't need sex and don't think about it 24/7.