Thanks Divvy.

Have since found out that when he isn't at his father's he is with his maternal grandma who and I quote: "** better sort out what she wants done with her obnoxious brat (this is her own grandson) because I'm not putting up with him much longer, she should just give him to XP"

Anyway I will tell Xp to contact the Sunshine Legal Aide and get some advice from them. Would I be able to speak for him even if we weren't together?

I've been thinking of going back to uni to do teaching but now I think family law might be the way to go?!