Kerry - welcome back. U would definately tell x to seek help from legal aid, they have their own branch to deal with specifically child issues. Thats who helped me when i was having probs with my x re: Xander and child support. ALso, i would definately talk to DOCS, Your name will not be mentioned under any circumstances, adn if the mum gets the documents, they will only say what was said about the situation, your name will be omitted. She may have the child taken away from her, without your ex needing to fight for custody. And if the child is taken off her, and she wants to fight for custody, her history will make it harder for her to get the child back. Good Luck

You're a wonderful person for helping your ex, i hope you work something out... (((hugs)))