Hmm. you sound exactly like me - and even the fact that I always wanted 2 boys and 1 girl.. lol

I think you should sit down with him and just lay it all out for him - tell him you don't think you are finished - maybe he doesn't REALLY realise that its THAT important to you.

Maybe he would be willing to go for a 3rd if he knows how much it means to you ya know? I'm pretty sure my DH would be happy to stay as we are - but he knows how much I need - not just want but NEED - to have a 3rd - and I've never kept my feelings quiet about wanting a 3rd - so maybe he's hearing you.. but not really HEARING you... IYKWIM?

Ok, Ok I'll tell you - go for a third But wait till June then we can be belly buddies lol