We just had our #3 - and I couldn't feel happier.

Sounds like our age differences are about the same - my son is 5 and a half and daughter is 3 and a half. Would have been closer but we had an angel last year, such is life.

I really feel like our family is complete now IYKWIM?????? I felt a bit of a gap before, and didn't know why - we were so busy beforehand!

I had such a great preg and wonderful, natural birth - I would like another just for the whole experience again but honestly feel comfortable that we are complete.

Lots of my friends did the whole - WHY - your kids our out of nappies and starting school etc, etc, I couldn't really explain it.

My DH comes from a family of 5 kids so 3 is good for him too.

Goodluck in your decision making ...