It is really hard going. But it does get better. DS was almost 19 months when DD was born, and OMG... he is the clingiest toddler in the world - still. This is an almost 2.5 year old that doesn't like to walk if we go down the shops - he wants to be held - he always wants to be carried - arghh does my head in.

But his sister - is the total opposite. She isn't clingy. She is just the cruisiest little bub ever. So I got a clingy, whingy, tantrum chucking toddler - and a cruisy, nothing ever bothers her, happy to play alone on the floor 9.5 month old.

So even though it may not feel like it - it DOES get better.

Now - remind me of this post when I have a meltdown with 3 under 3.. LOL