It's not that I think you SHOULD check up on him, it's more that for me, at least, knowing I could would give a some small comfort in the wee hours when these things become larger than life, itms?
It's like when I gave up smoking. I kept one in a packet knowing that if I really 'needed' to, the option was there. I never did, but I would have got more anxious and probably had to buy a packet without it.
You handle things the way you're comfortable hon, I hope he proves you right x