I love Tamsin, and she was planned, but I never really "expected" to have kids IYKWIM, so having more isn't something I feel strongly about. I'm not worried about spoiling Tamsin and am hoping to give her plenty of social opportunities with friends and family. These are the only real down sides I can think of to having just one, and I think we will be able to get around them okay.
Plus DH only really wants one - I could probably convince him otherwise if I felt strongly about it, but I don't feel the need to do so.
It's too early to say what I love and hate about it yet, since Tamsin is so young. But I too would love to hear from others (including you Cass!) to see what you think of it all Why and when did you decide that one was enough?
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