I think it a world over population thing in general and intil rexently he hadn't mwntioned how much it means to him. I even asked if it was just a cocer for him not wanting more kids and he said no, that it's a serious issue that he may one day want to lobby against and that thw solution has to start somewhere and that's with him.

As if I didn't have enough conflicting feelings about rhis decision before hubby goes and does this.