wow, i was going to hit "REPLY WITH QUOTE", but there were SO MANY posts i agreed with, i just coudln't put them all.

Like DaniellaBella, i had a traumatic delivery and a bad first year.
Like Nettie, i am petrified of what would happen to bilby, if i was unable to care for her.
I am older, recently out of toxic r'ship, finding it hard to trust anyone, not even looking at men, so the possibility of getting pregnant is zero.
Not in a financial situation to provide for another child.
Feeling guilty about not providing bilby with a sibling, especially when we have so little family. (her dad and one elderly aunt).
Took so long to conceive, i am very fortunate to have had one child at all.
I am so grateful we both survived the delivery (bandl's ring happened during delivery).

bilby is definately an only child.