Yay, so glad to hear of other 1 child families - everyone around me seems to be having several children and I sometimes feel like the odd one out.

I fully understand the "will I love another baby as much" issue. I feel that too. Also, DH and I are both kind of worried that if we have another child they won't be as "good" as DD. This sounds awful, but DD is very advanced in her speech, she is very healthy, well behaved, had no problems breastfeeding, etc. I am scared if I have another one who is not a "dream baby" like Diana, I will always be comparing them to her. Or is this just an excuse because I think that having one is enough, but don't feel that this is good enough for others? I've only ever wanted one, and the way we live at the moment, I am not sure how another baby would fit in. E.g. we co-sleep, and have no real rules or routines. This is fine with one well behaved child but would most likely not work with a more challening one...

And then there is the financial implications...