Oh no, you're not alone Bath! I constantly struggle with this! Though I find if I forget about it, I feel alot more relaxed (go figure ).

Thing is, I can't see any way around it for me. It's just the way things are with small children around, the lot of a SAHM, so to speak. I find myself thinking 'if only I knew when he would sleep, and how long for, then I could structure my day better'. But of course, that's not going to happen, DS is an unpredictable soul, and I have to learn to live with that. Little Miss Control Freak has to loosen up LOL.

I actually cope with it fine really, it's just my mind feels so disorganised IYKWIM. I think I get just as much done, possibly more, but I can't feel ordered in my mind, and that drives me a bit nuts