that about sums up my day too. What I find the hardest to deal with is DH thinking its so easy to get everything done in a day and wondering why I didn't get xyz done and its hard to get through to him that all I need is a cranky child, unsettled baby etc to throw things right out. And then some days I just say 'bugger it - I'm not doing much today' and yeah, I do pay for it the next day when I am a day behind in everything, but I have to do that so I can have my play time.